Sunday, June 24, 2007

UpperRoom

There is a little tea house called "UpperRoom" in Beijing. The Chinese name is LouShang "楼尚". The owner is from HongKong and every Friday there is live music. The tea house offers some sweets that is specific to HongKong-ness and they can only be found here in Beijing. Stella, an acquaintance of ManLung, has invited us to meet at "UpperRoom". Since Veronica is from HongKong, so I just extended the invitation to her too.

After we parked the car, the 3 of us and David walked along a narrow alley till we finally saw this small building. There is a table set on the patio right outside the front door. And there a few people sitting at the table, chatting and obviously eating. We walked inside the door, and right in our face is a counter. On the left in front of the counter, we found our friend Stella sitting on the couch. She told us that the place is full and that is the place she has reserved for us. Eating on the sofa, that is the home style.

Luckily, before long we were able to be transferred to the "UpperRoom". The kitchen is actually upstairs. And there were only limited 5 to 6 tables. People there are... how would I describe it? They are like a family. The restaurant owner uses a laptop to project song lyrics. And then there is a guy who is invited by the owner to sing that night. Everyone in the room is welcome to sing along.


The owner knows most of the people there. "I did not make any money through this restaurant, but I did make many many friends." :-) I heard that the restaurant was on TV and has won some prizes for being creative.

The place is just crowded. But the atmosphere is hot and free. David loved to be there. He sit on the stairs and played the little decorative light bulbs wrapping around the hand rail. He moved his body by the music and even tried to sing along. He was so happy and so did I. Robert didn't seem to understand much about the songs. But he has got a delicious meal.

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Teenhood Maid Reunion

I've got reconnected with one of my best friends in junior high and I just found out that how different we were and we are still. :-)

Lan YuXiang (兰玉香) is 1.5 years older than me. We spent 3 years in junior high almost doing everything together, with another girl XiaoYing. We were peas in the same pod. :-) Obvious I knew little about people or the world around me, or even myself; because the hours we talked yesterday only showed how different we are. She is gracious, energetic, sociable, considerate and interested in light and enjoyable things. I am simple, nice, silent, often submerging into my own thoughts and interested in "big" "heavy" topics. She doesn't remember much of the things she has said and I had hold on all these years. And I don't quite recall the things that I've said and she has cherished in her heart. She didn't change much and I guess I didn't either. I wonder how on the earth we were so close!

Well put the differences away, a bond is a bond, once had and will always have. I am so excited that I get to see her again and I am so glad to know that she is doing quite well. YuXiang works in the police department of the HaiDian District where we lived and are living in right now. She has told me stories about this city and this country. Being in Beijing, she got the chance to deal with some officials of the country, and witnessed a pure promising student being corrupted by power and the money it brings. "After all money is the enemy of no one", she quoted and that summarized the fall of the head exec of the HaiDian District. She has also seen people living at the bottom of the society and things that are simply indescribable. She has seen one person covered with shabby filthy cloth right out of the jail in the morning and the same person shone in fancy suit and glowing jewelries in the afternoon. Men do see the outside of a person and pay their respects based on that.
My friend, YuXiang is beautiful, inside and outside. I am sure she could marry anyone she wanted. She has chosen a life of wealth, an email address of 'liebe' and is happy about it. She has a lovely 9-year old. The girl, ZiYing Li, has her mom's eyes and smile...

I am sure more reunions will come up soon. And I will get to meet more friends of my teen years and bring out more stories from the dusty attic of my mind. This morning, a scripture fell into my readings:

“Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor scurrility, which are not convenient, but rather giving of thanks.” And, “For ye were sometimes darkness, but now are ye light in the Lord; walk honestly as children of the light, not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in anger and jealousy. And such were some of you; but ye have been washed, but ye have been sanctified in the name of our Lord.”

That is the answer of my prayer and guidance in my confusion.

Monday, June 18, 2007

Navigating in Beijing -- Driving

As the capital of the country, Beijing has recorded population of 15 million. The estimated overall population, including the unrecorded residents, is from 15 million to 30 million. The streets are surely not designed to carry these many people!

It is very fun to go around the city with different ways and experience different sub-cultures. Since we have just bought our car, let me start with Driving.




Driving in Beijing is very fun for the following reasons:

Sneakers
Often while you are driving on the road, a car will suddenly show up on your side and poke its nose in front of your car. You have to step on the break suddenly to avoid bumping into it. Robert calls them sneakers. They keep us awake and help us made the decision to have an automatic car. Patience bucket needs to be full, as well as the gas tank, before you get on the road. :-)


Mixed Roads
Except for the major high ways (4 major circle city high ways and a few inter-city high ways), most of the streets are allowed with all kinds of vehicles -- bus, horse wagons, motor cycles. It really depends on where you are in the city. One morning we saw on the opposite direction a woman riding a 3-wheel motor cart carrying some vegetables and following her is a long line of Volkswagen's and Benz's. :-) This was the one lane street and those cars could not pass her. They waited peacefully behind her and sliding their luxury cars along patiently. We were laughing all the way passing them, clapping for the fairness of the right to the road.


Beeping and Honking
While we took the driver license test, one rule caught our eyes. That is when you passing someone walking, you should beep your horn. I guess that is to warn them that you are there. So I had to practice the horn on my new car to get the feel of it. I definitely don't want to scare people by a loud long beep. I remember when we had a conference call meeting through phones, our dev lead had to call in from his cell phone because he was stuck in the traffic for 2 hours that morning. Our Redmond colleagues were amazed by the beeps and horns in the background. You could tell there were some upset drivers there on the street. In my ears these beeping and honking have composed an interesting road melody -- I call it "harmony in the chaos".


Cameras, points and fine
In many intersections, cameras are installed to catch violators. Still there are smart drivers who could tell that if the camera is on or not. If one is caught violating the rules, he/she could be fined 200RMB and take 3 points. If his or her points reach 12, he/she needs to attend a class before getting on the road again.
Robert got stopped the second day we had the car. He changed lane over a solid white line. The police signaled him to park on the side of the street. Then he realized that our car hadn't got the license plate yet and Robert looked very puzzled and he doesn't know enough English to explain to Robert what went wrong. So he signaled him to drive along. I heard him saying something like "well, you are probably new to the road and are a foreigner, I will let you go this time. Next time don't pass the solid line!" I am glad it wasn't me driving.

Bus stops
Bus stops normally are set right after the intersections. And buses come in groups -- sometimes 4 or 5 in sequence. So the buses going in and out the stops slow down the traffic flow a lot. So keep at the left lane while you can. Just be careful that the left most lane might turn into a left turn only lane before you noticed. :-)

Dead locks
Everyone would like to get ahead. Cars trying to pass after the light turns to red and cars trying to turn left before the light turns to green, and cars trying to go straight after the light turns to green... They all meet in the middle of the street. Well, sometime it causes a deadlock and no one could move. Don't worry. Police will be here within half an hour. And you will have a well accepted and sympathized excuse to be late.

Parking
Parking lots are precious. Many times we had to circle around for a lot. We don't see many parking buildings as they are popular in the States. Inside the city, most of the parkings are above ground. To get in the tiny spot with crowded cars around you, you need to have skills. I often had to back and forth many times to get the car in. I felt like Austin Powers when he had to take the car out of the building after he has lost his mojo.
Newer buildings in the outskirts start to have underground parking. Big grocery stores, such as Walmart and Carrefour, have dedicated parking lots free to their customers.
The parking fee ranges from 0.5RMB/hour to 2RMB/hour. Only one time we had to pay 10RMB for 2 hours because we had to park in front of a restaurant without eating there. They sold the parking lot to us for 2 hours.

More roads and even more cars
The city is expanding. More and more roads are being built. Yet it still cannot catch up the speed of the increasing of the cars. Government has been working on the solutions for years. Even most people spend 2-3 hours on the road to an from work, everybody is confident that at least this will be resolved for the Olympics. The easiest way is to give everyone a 15-day long holiday so they could watch the game and don't have to drive to work. :-)




Next post on "Navigating in Beijing", I will talk about taxis as we have experiences with them for almost 9 months.

Sunday, June 17, 2007

Church's new location and the Great Marching

This Sunday our church moved to this new location -- the Great Hotel by the 3rd ring.
What I love about this church is the people. They are simply NICE and sincere. The people are from all corners of the world and we get to meet and serve God together.
Among them are a large group of people from Africa who are welcoming and alive in all things they do. They dressed in their traditional clothes with all kinds of bright colors -- yellow, red, green and orange. We had the Palm Sunday in African theme. We danced around the room like we were having a party and enjoyed the delicious African food after the service.
Besides African brothers and sisters, we have people from Holland, Russia, Indonesia and Singapore. It will take me a while to learn to say their names all right. :-)

The Great Marching

This is the 3rd week that we march around the Forbidden city. This week we are praying for God to raise a new generation in China -- anointed, strong, seeking God's righteousness and wisdom.
The background of the picture on the left shows the north-east corner of the Forbidden city.
Just to bring the story up-to-date, during the 1st marching, we prayed for the nation to have the peace with God and the peace of God. And the second marching we prayed for the repent of the nation, to repend from their cheatings, lyings and all sinful ways.

Friday, June 15, 2007

Teach Your Kids Billingual

On Friday afternoon, company HR organized a talk about "how to teach your kids billingual". The topic sounds interesting so I spend about an hour in the talk.
Besides the commercial propaganda of their international billingual school, I did hear a few things that are helpful in raising a billingual kid. If I only have time and room to list one, I would take on the culture one -- billingual is not only a second language, it is a second culture. Billingual kids are more respectful, peaceful and sociable because they understand that different people approach things differently.
I thought I knew about this, but I don't think I've put much thinking into it. While we are bringing in English materials to David, we also have choose the right one that will influence how he understands the English world, mostly America in our family. :-)
So choosing Chinese and English as 2 languages for David is a perfect combination of the 2 cultures. Eastern model respects authorities and hierarchies. People often do what is being told to them and are mostly peaceful about it. Western model honors individuality. Self-starters are admired when they are creative and successful. It is OK to make mistakes when trying new things. So raising David to be a respectful, peaceful yet creative individual would be a nice thing. Of course God will do the final shaping of his character. :-)

Thursday, June 14, 2007

Meeting new people

Yesterday we had a wonderful dinner with a couple from CA -- Ron and Delanda. They've been in Beijing for about 5 months. Ron has been giving talks around the world. He had his own business for the last 20 years on making injection molds for plastics. Delanda is a mom of 2 girls and is expecting her 2nd grandson in a few weeks.
But they are not old at all -- only about 45 years old maybe. And they've dedicated the rest of their lives to the Lord. Ron gives talks on marriages and Delanda does personal consulting and comes to women side by side. They have travelled around the world -- Germany, Peru, African during the last few years. They speak softly and lovingly. I could see God's grace is on them. How wonderful that we've found this couple who lives only 5 minutes away!

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Let the journey continue

After 9 months in Beijing, I finally decided to start a blog on our life here. It is because our other part of the families have started a blog to tell their stories in Spain. And I thought that was cool! And I think we should do the same thing.
Choosing the name of the blog was not an easy task: anything that I could think of and has "China" in it is taken. Finally I had to expand our journey a little bit to the whole eastern half globe and that settles it. So our final blog name is http://easternglobe.blogspot.com/ Maybe we will have the luck to visit more regions and countries on the east side of the earth.

The real reason I'd like to start writing is actually not only to tell the family and friends our story in China. It is also because that so many things have happened and I'd like to write them down before the tiny tweeny details flee from my memory. It feels quite interesting when a Chinese comes back to her homeland after 11 years and has to adapt to the new country. Maybe one day I could publish a little brouchure on this adventure of back to the east. And that could be a witness to the history of China in the early 21st century. :-)